Sean Akizuki's Personal Blog

It can't be denied that there's always a DIFFERENCE between Orientals and Caucasians.  It's time to really see it at a different aspect.  While there's not much of a problem between a Caucasian man and an Oriental woman (well, adjust... adjust...) the Oriental males are stereotyped to be more dominating than the Caucasian man and Caucasian women are more free-thinking.  So what's it going to be?  Well it's time to do some balancing such as the husband being less dominating and the woman being moderately submissive, that is while she submits to authority, she however doesn't tolerate abuse.  I believe that an advantage of this mixed marriage can be that it would be time to even out the odds between the two and discarding the bad between the two.

I finally have to admit that it's time for my first love to go away.  Can you imagine the pain of it?  Well perhaps it's really for the best with the last request of erasing her from my mind as she already found somebody else- I hope she'll be happy.  Well, I was much younger back then.  But now things have changed.  Things are much different now.  As said, we must move on.  Things can't always stay the same can they?

While it's mostly expected in the past that Orientals are short and Caucasians are tall but there's always the reverse.  I may be Oriental myself but I'm at least 172 cm.  And another, based on the celebrities above Tori Matsuzaka is 181 cm and Emma Rose Roberts is only 159 cm tall.  That is simply an illustration that Americans are not necessarily super tall as some Americans are not so tall and Orientals as super short as Yao Ming is considered gigantic.  So it's back to the height norm- taller guy, shorter girl but only this time, the shorter one is the one who's white and the taller one is the one who's yellowish or pale white. So let's try to figure out how a tall Chinese guy could get well, attracted to a short American girl and feel more confident about it because he's taller than the white girl.  It could start with some emotional security, stability, well... perhaps some avoidance of the height issue.  As said, Americans are not always tall and...

After watching Forbidden Kingdom and The Monkey King that involved a white man falling for a Chinese girl, there can be a reversal for the scripts.  So I personally thought that most of the Chinese guy-American girl scripts are based on real incidents, I think they should at least put it in fiction.  So what's my plot?  Well, I would like to see a white girl fall into ancient China like Miaka did in Fushigi Yuugi and perhaps, let a woman's point of view fill in the scene rather than just having white men.

I guess it's only natural that Chinese girls do get attractive.  Well above is Crystal Liu Yi Fei, one of my favorite Chinese actresses and a really attractive one at best.  I find her more attractive than most of the Power Rangers' babes that were present during the Disney era.  Anyway side comment- I think they would like to stay in America to learn English more then they can start teaching them their language.  Hee hee.  Talk about inter-culture exchange- maybe and must maybe, Chinese and white Americans are meant to create a super race when they interbreed?!  I think so!  However some American males prefer to go after the ethnic looking Chinese over the enhanced ones (who carry Western genes) for some reason.  Other American males have Chinese partners that are obviously enhanced.  Well, these half-breeds can speak the Chinese language vs. those who have an American mother, Chinese father because it's the mother who coaches the language....

It can't be denied that there are Chinese men who are actually getting married to American girls and I think here are just some of the reasons: 1.) The gender imbalance in China  Due to gender discrimination in China, abortions are done to female infants before they can be born thus causing the drop.  Admit it- they've got to find a partner don't they?  Well, maybe not the top cause since they can also go to the Philippines to find a Filipino wife or other parts of the globe. 2.) Vindictive Chinese tradition has caused them to flee and seek a new life Reading through the Joy Luck Club by Amy Tan (which focused on the perils of the early Chinese women), some Chinese males may have had enough of the vindictive arranged marriages, the overly demanding Chinese traditions and the overly controlling way of life.  Going for the opposite extreme?  Well looks like it.  And what better way for them to actually be American than to get an American woman?  Hmmm...

  Can an Oriental guy find happiness with a Caucasian girl?  Well, it really depends if they can really accept each other and give up some customs for the sake of the other as some Orientals have given in to much Western beliefs and putting aside old folk beliefs.  I personally think they can.  In the first place, modern-minded Oriental guys can actually get along with moderate Caucasian girls.  Some Oriental-Caucasian marriages can run well.  All it takes is to really understand and adjust to each other and a give and take process.  However it's a problem among Chinese males to be philandering with women normally not of their race and what composes the majority in a nation- for example in America, they would go after whites or in Africa, after blacks. So far the courtship period is kind of crucial.  Some Orientals are more open-minded, some are not.  I believe that both sides should know each other, especially one another.  For example...